Criticism is common for any form of Life

GOSPEL THOUGHTS

*Advent Season :  2nd Week : New Liturgical Year : Friday*

*Gospel : Mt 11:16-19*

*First Reading : Is 48:17-19*

*Criticism is common for any form of Life*

*1) The Style of John's Life*

John's life was very strict, with rigours disciple

He was strict with Himself and Aldo with others 

Prayer, fasting, penance and simplicity was the trade mark of John's life 

It is a form of Holy life, which helped John to live a morally upright life 

No one could find any fault with his integrity of life 

Yet people criticised John's life. They said *He is possessed by a demon.’*

*2) The Style of Jesus' life*

Jesus was more social and mingled with people especially with poor and sinners

He visited their houses, ate with them, spent time with them and he taught them about the Kingdom of God 

Jesus was loved by many and because of His approvh he became very popular figure among the people 

Yet some people criticised even Jesus. They said *Look, he is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’*

*3) One can't please everyone*

This the important fact of our life 

We need to realise this truth of our life. 

Whatever may be our life, however holy we are, or whatever may be  level of our integrity, still we can't please every one 

There will be people who will always oppose our views and the form of our life 

Criticism is the part of our life. One can't escape from it  

*4) How do we respond to the criticism?*

Some people are easily affected by the criticism of others, because they expect 100% cooperation and appreciation from other 

At the practical level 100% result in this areas not possible 

Therefore we need to develop a positive attitude towards the criticism which may help us to see the reality of the matter and if need be some modifications in our approach 

Having negative approach towards the criticism will make our life more difficult and miserable

*5) My Attitude towards Criticism*

How do I respond to the criticism? 

Do I take it in a positive way Or not? 

Constructive criticism is always good for the Growth 

If I am unable to receive criticism, it becomes a block for my growth 

*6) My stand should be clear*

John the Baptist's stand was clear. So he didn't bother about the criticism

Jesus was very clear about his stand. So he too didn't bother about the criticism

When we are clear about the  stand, we know what we are doing. Such firm resolve also necessary to face the criticism in a positive way 

*Think about it*

*God bless you and your family. Praying for you and your dear ones*

*Fr Maxim DSouza*

*Jeppu Seminary*

*Mangalore*