Anointing the Feet with Oil and Wiping it with the Hair

GOSPEL THOUGHTS

*Holy Week :  Monday*

*Gospel :  John12:1-11*

*First Reading : Is 42: 1-7*

*Responsorial Psalm : 27: 1-14*

*Anointing the Feet with Oil and Wiping it with the Hair*

*1) The Meaning of the Gesture* 

*A) An act of extravagant love* 

Mary’s action is excessive by worldly standards: The perfume was very costly. Letting down her hair publicly was culturally bold and intimate. This is love without calculation. She gives her best, not leftovers.

*B) A sign of humility and surrender* 

Wiping Jesus’ feet with her hair is striking: Feet were considered the lowest part of the body. Hair was seen as a woman’s glory. She places her dignity at His feet. This is total surrender of self.

*C) A prophetic act* 

Mary may not fully understand it, but her action points forward: Jesus interprets it as preparation for His burial. Before anyone else, she “honors” His coming death.

*D) A contrast of hearts* 

Two responses are placed side by side: *Mary* → love, generosity, devotion. *Judas* → calculation, criticism, hidden selfishness.  The story asks: Which heart do we have?

*2) Significance during Holy Week*

*A) It foreshadows the Cross* : The anointing anticipates Jesus’ death and burial. Before the suffering begins, He receives love.

*B) It mirrors Jesus washing feet (John 13)* : Soon after, Jesus will wash His disciples’ feet. Here, a disciple serves Jesus. There, Jesus serves His disciples.

This mutual love reveals the heart of Christian life: love expressed through humble service.

*C) It invites us into deeper devotion*  : As Holy Week begins, the question becomes: Do we stand at a distance? Or do we come close, like Mary?

*3) How is this applicable to our life?* 

*A) Give your best to God—not leftovers* : Mary gave what was most valuable. Do I give God my time, attention, and love—or only what remains?

*B) Love beyond logic* : Not everything in faith can be measured or justified. Do I sometimes hold back because something feels “too much”?

*C) Be willing to be misunderstood* : Mary is criticized, yet Jesus defends her. Am I willing to do what is right, even if others misunderstand?

*D) Cultivate a heart of devotion, not comparison* : Judas compares and criticizes; Mary simply loves. Do I judge others’ devotion instead of deepening my own?

*E) Stay close to Jesus in moments of suffering* : Mary is present before the Cross. Do I stay with Christ in difficult moments, or turn away?

*4) Points to Ponder* 

What is my “perfume”?

What am I holding back from God?

Am I willing to pour it out in love?

*Think about it*

*God bless you and your family. Praying for you and your dear ones*

*Fr Maxim DSouza*

*Jeppu Seminary*

*Mangalore*